Most criticism should be ignored
Constructive criticism vs. Destructive criticism.
What’s the difference?
Do we really know how to offer constructive criticism? Do we dump all criticism in the same pot – all bad, hurtful or discouraging?
Maybe we view constructive criticism as giving someone wise advice or counsel when we think her idea, dream, or path is all wrong for her.
Have you ever shared something big, bold and daring (of course, legal) that you’re contemplating and instead of receiving encouragement, you received irrelevant, unsolicited advice? You leave the conversation dumbfounded asking yourself, “What just happened?”
Constructive criticism? Destructive criticism? There is a difference and you can feel it.
Following my usual morning routine, I looked for an inspiring or informative read to jumpstart my Monday.
I browsed industry news articles and my company’s news on the intranet. Then, I ran across a blog post in my Gmail.
Instead of bookmarking it for reading later, I begin reading it and couldn’t stop. The author’s story is very personal and transparent, complete with images and emotions.
Let me share.
What I learned about criticism…
Ignore it, expect more of it (because I’m achieving more), and keep moving on my path.
According to blog author
…there are a variety of people out there who are more than happy to pass along criticism to us, out of their own self-interest. In my experience, unwarranted criticism often has more to do with jealousy and people feeling threatened by us than anything else.
…people often seek to criticize us for reasons that are more self-serving than anything.
Read the blog post, Criticism, Your Career, and Your Life, especially if you’re facing extreme criticism (or find yourself doing more giving than receiving.)
Tell me what you think.
